Below, my favorite shots from the experience. City in the desert: An aerial view of the Burning Man festival reveals the true scope of the event. Debauchery in the desert: Wife-swapping. Often, when the art structures are ceremoniously burned, dust devils intertwine with the embers to form miniature, flaming tornadoes. What a touching surprise fayher a film. It was an interesting experience. The Orgy Dome is hardly alone.
The father-son bonding adventure. You know: The big fishing excursion, The road trip down Route Last year, Wells Tower took a completely different approach with his dad: Burning Man, the world's largest chemically enhanced self-expression festival. They went to witness the Slut Olympics. They went to see the art. They went to discover what draws 60, people to one of the least hospitable places on Earth. Then they set up camp and took off their clothes.
And things got truly interesting. The land, the very atmosphere out there, is alien, malignant, the executioner of countless wagon trains. I am afraid to crack the window. Huge dervishes of alkaline dust reel and teeter past. The sun, a brittle parchment white, glowers as though we personally have done something to piss it off. An hour out here and already I could light an Ohio Blue Tip off the inside of my nostril.
Nor would there be a trio of young and merry nudists capering at our front bumper, demanding that we step out of the vehicle and join them. But here is the question: Do I want some naked strangers to get on me? Or, more to the point, do I want them to get on me with my father watching? This quandary is no quandary for my father. My father and I are staid, abstracted East Coast types without much natural affinity for bohemian adventures.
But we are here less for the festival itself than in service of an annual father-son ritual. Fourteen years ago, my father was diagnosed with an exotic lymphoma and given an outside prognosis of two years. When we both supposed he was dying, we made an adorable pledge—if he survived—to take a trip together every year. Or it used to be, before people like my father and burning man with my father started showing up. Now I, too, am in the daylight, being hugged by a small, bearded Mr.
Witu of a fellow, and also by a bespectacled lady-librarian type with a scrupulously mown bunring. Whether it is good to be here, we shall discover in the burning man with my father week. Gotta get ready for the Slut Olympics. My dad is enlivened. Perhaps this was a poor idea. Mere moments here and my emotional machinery, specifically the feelings-about-my-family manifold, is burning man with my father to smoke, creak, and blow springs with a jaw-harp bwaaaang! The root causes of my embarrassment, eith, naturally, track back to my childhood, a montage of my father perpetually falling short burning man with my father the dull, decorous Ward Cleaver ideal I imagined everyone else had for a dad.
Because my father is constitutionally incapable of being embarrassed, I spent much of my early life being embarrassed on his behalf. In elementary school, I was embarrassed by his car, a mulch-colored Datsun coupe which, burning man with my father the clearcoat gave out, mqn father repainted, with brushes, a pupil-puckering shade of kelly green. I was, and am, embarrassed by his house. After my parents divorced I was 6the home became a tribute to unreconstructed bachelorhood, a place where the dominant ky was ramen noodles, where the dirty-clothes hamper was a delta of fragrant laundry on the kitchen floor, and where, when the furnace broke, it went unrepaired for the better part of a decade.
I was embarrassed, and also sort of impressed, one day when I was 7 when I saw him drink some of my pee. In any case, I set it on the kitchen table while I went to find my shoes. He took a generous slug. Did I mention that my father is no free-ranging hippie papa but a professor of burnong who once voted for George. Never mind that his immune system is faltering. He now requires monthly transfusions of immunoglobulin. His chronic chest cold seems to be getting worse.
And yet, while I love my father, these trips with him are not always enjoyable for me. It is not just that he likes to dry his sink-scrubbed underclothes by flying them from the antenna of the rental car. It is also the sleeping arrangements. My father is the sort of thrifty traveler who stays at hotels with hourly rates. Once, in a jungle in New Zealand, we got drunk and passed out on the corpse woth a decomposed rat.
My father insists on sleeping nude, even when we share a room, sometimes even when we share a bed, and this sort of closeness can be difficult to bear.
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